Manhasset stands are the industry standard for orchestras. They are sturdy, repairable, adjustable, versatile, up-gradable, and come in a variety of colors, and in glossy and matte finishes. Though expensive, when properly maintained, a Manhasset stand will last for literally (not figuratively) decades, so it's a worthwhile investment. Their only drawback is that they're not very portable, so for portable stands, see K & M below.
K & M Music Stands
This German company has perfected the design of the portable music stand. They share many of the features of Manhasset regarding reliability, and where they fall short, they do so in order to make the stand portable. However, like Manhasset, a properly maintained K & M stand will last for decades.
Mighty Bright Stand Lights
Just about any stand light from this company will do the job.